Create More Intimacy: A Podcast for Men

Create More Intimacy: A Podcast for Men

Hosted by: Alisa Stoddard

Struggling to fix the distance in your marriage - even though you’ve tried everything? You’re not alone. This podcast is for high-achieving men who want more intimacy, better communication, and a stronger emotional...

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Why Initiating Keeps Failing | Ep 58

If you've been initiating and getting nowhere, this episode explains why, and it's probably not what you think. Most men were never told that desire doesn't work the same way for everyone. They've been measuring their...
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She Said She Loves Me But Isn’t In Love With Me | Ep 57

“I love you but I’m not in love with you.” If your wife said this to you, this episode is for you. This is a clarity episode, not crisis management. It covers what she is actually saying when she uses those words, how...
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You’re About to Be Alone With Someone You Don’t Know | Ep 56

You built a life together. And somewhere in the middle of all of it, the two of you quietly stopped connecting. Not dramatically. Not with one defining moment. Just a slow drift that neither of you fully named. If you...
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You Don't Know If It's Over. You Just Know You Can't Keep Going Like This | Ep 55

Most men don't say it directly. But somewhere underneath the exhaustion and the distance, there's a question that keeps coming back at 2am: is this actually over? In this episode, we go into what that question is...
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She Doesn’t Want More From You. She Wants Something Different | Ep 54

You are doing a lot. You provide, you handle things, you show up. And somehow the marriage still feels empty. In this episode, we break down why effort alone doesn’t create emotional connection - and what your wife...
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Men and Vulnerability: Why Admitting You Don't Have It All Together Makes You a Better Partner | Ep 53

If you've ever felt like you're doing everything right but your partner still feels distant, this episode will likely land closer than you expect. Because the issue usually isn't effort. It's what you've been hiding -...
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Why You Keep Losing Control in Conversations (And What’s Really Driving It) | Ep 52

If you’ve ever been told you’re “angry all the time,” but it doesn’t feel that simple to you, this episode will likely hit closer than you expect. Because the issue usually isn’t just anger. It’s what’s happening...
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Why Nothing Is Changing in Your Relationship (And It’s Not What You Think) | Ep 51

If you feel like nothing is changing in your relationship, even though you’re trying, this episode will help you understand why. In this episode, I break down the hidden pattern that keeps many men stuck in cycles of...
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Why Sex Isn’t Fixing What Feels Off in Your Relationship | Ep 50

In this episode, we’re talking about something most men don’t realize is happening in their relationship. You think you want more sex. And on the surface, that’s true. But what you’re really chasing isn’t just the...
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Why You Still Feel Unappreciated, No Matter How Much You Do | Ep 49

You’re doing everything you believe you’re supposed to do. You work hard, you provide, you show up for your family, and yet… it still feels like something is missing. Like no one really sees the weight of what you’re...
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Why You’re Pulling Away in Your Marriage (And Don’t Even Realize It) | Ep 48

You didn’t wake up one day and decide to pull away from your relationship. It happened slowly. In this episode, I’m walking you through what I see all the time with the men I work with. You’ve been trying. You’ve been...
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Why Old Hurt Keeps Showing Up in New Arguments | Ep 47

Small arguments in marriage are rarely just about the moment in front of you. In this episode, I talk about why couples often become sharper with each other over time, not because one major thing happened, but because...
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