Create More Intimacy: A Podcast for Men

Create More Intimacy: A Podcast for Men

Hosted by: Alisa Stoddard

Struggling to fix the distance in your marriage - even though you’ve tried everything? You’re not alone. This podcast is for high-achieving men who want more intimacy, better communication, and a stronger emotional...

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Lonely in Your Marriage: What Successful Men Need to Know Now | Ep 31

Most successful men assume loneliness is something they can power through, but in marriage it is often the first warning sign. In this episode, I walk you through why the distance has grown, what’s actually happening...
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If Your Wife Matched Your Energy, Would You Feel Loved? | Ep 30

If your wife matched your energy in the relationship, would you feel loved? This episode dives deep into what happens when emotional effort becomes one-sided - when she’s the one managing connection, while you handle...
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Stop “Helping Out” and Start Showing Up | Ep 29

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything you can to “help” but still end up with a tense, disconnected home - this episode will hit home. Because here’s the truth: when you “help out,” you’re still putting her...
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Stop Needing to Be Right (If You Want Real Connection) | Ep 28

Most men don’t realize how often their need to be right keeps them from the connection they actually want. In this episode, I’ll explain why logic and proof can’t heal emotional pain - and what to do when your wife...
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Why You Keep Losing Your Temper (and How to Stop Feeling So Guilty After)

You tell yourself you’ll keep calm next time, but somehow you still end up snapping.Then comes the guilt, the silence, and the promise that you’ll “do better.” In this episode, I’ll walk you through what’s actually...
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You Can’t Go Back to How It Was: Why Real Change in Marriage Starts with You

You miss how things used to be - when she smiled more, laughed at your jokes, and seemed happy to see you. But what you’re really missing isn’t her, it’s who you used to feel like in your marriage. In this episode,...
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Stop Delegating Your Happiness: Why Money, Sex, and Success Can’t Fix Your Marriage

You’ve worked hard, achieved, and provided. On paper, you’ve done everything right. So why does your marriage still feel distant? Why do you still feel rejected or disrespected at home? In this episode, I break down...
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Why Putting Your Wife on a Pedestal Hurts Your Marriage

Putting your wife on a pedestal might feel like respect, but it often creates distance instead of intimacy. In this episode, I'll explain why pedestal talk backfires, where it comes from, and how it leaves women...
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Why Fighting and Silent Treatments Don’t Bring You Closer

Do fights in your marriage always spiral, only to be followed by days of silence?If so, you know how exhausting the cycle can be. One minute you’re caught in an argument that’s not even about what started it, and the...
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How Men Can Stop Feeling Lonely in Marriage

Do you feel like your wife is your only source of connection - and it’s driving a wedge between you? In this episode, I share why following her around or envying her social life is backfiring, and how you can stop...
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Why Talking Feels So Hard With Your Wife

Do you feel like every time your wife wants to talk, it ends in a fight? You’re not alone. Most men were taught from a young age to only take yelling seriously - and that old training is still running the show in your...
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Unspoken Expectations Are Killing Your Marriage

Do you ever feel like your wife doesn’t notice all you do? You work hard, provide, show up - and yet you’re left feeling unseen and unappreciated. This episode is all about unspoken expectations in marriage - why...
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