Create More Intimacy: A Podcast for Men

Create More Intimacy: A Podcast for Men

Hosted by: Alisa Stoddard

Struggling to fix the distance in your marriage - even though you’ve tried everything? You’re not alone. This podcast is for high-achieving men who want more intimacy, better communication, and a stronger emotional...

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Why Waiting for Her to Change Won’t Work (And What Will)

If you’ve ever thought, “This would be so much easier if she would just change,” this episode is for you. You’ve backed off. You’ve done more. You’ve kept the peace. And still - you feel unseen, unwanted, and like you...
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Men Don’t Cry: The Emotional Cost of Shutting Down

You were never taught how to feel - only how to hide. Maybe it was your dad, your coach, or just the way people looked at you when you got upset… but at some point, you got the message loud and clear: “Toughen up....
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Why You Keep Losing It – And What to Do Instead

Ever find yourself snapping at your wife - or pulling away - then wondering, “Why did I react like that?” You don’t want to lose it, but it keeps happening. And afterward, the silence or shame just deepens the...
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Three Things Your Wife Actually Wants

You want more appreciation, more intimacy, more connection… But what does she want? In this episode, we’re breaking down the three things your wife actually wants from you - not just in theory, but in your day-to-day...
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How to Ask for What You Want (Without Feeling Selfish)

If you’ve ever felt disappointed on Father’s Day - or any day that was supposed to be about you - this episode is for you. We’re talking about the quiet frustration that comes from feeling overlooked… and the...
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Nothing Will Change If You Don’t

If you keep hoping your wife will change - how she responds, what she gives, how close she feels - you’ll keep getting stuck. The truth is, waiting for her to shift first usually leads to resentment, distance, and...
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When Jokes Become Criticism and Silence Becomes Distance

Let’s talk about emotional immaturity - and how it’s showing up in the way you communicate. If you give your wife the silent treatment, if you crack jokes that are actually criticism, if you pull away when things get...
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You’re Not Just Arguing - You’re Disconnecting

Some couples fight. Others go silent. Either way - conflict without connection just leaves you both feeling more alone. In this episode, we’ll break down what’s really happening when your arguments go nowhere (or...
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It’s Not Just About Sex - You Want to Feel Wanted

In this short opening episode, I want to talk to the man who’s been carrying a quiet frustration. The one doing his best - but still feeling like the intimacy is gone. Maybe you’re barely having sex anymore. Maybe...
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Start Here: Why This Podcast Will Change the Way You Think About Intimacy

Welcome to the Create More Intimacy: A Podcast for Men If your marriage feels distant - like the intimacy is gone, conversations are shallow, or you're more like roommates than lovers - this podcast is for you. Each...
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